When in doubt - read your reference letters from previous employers

The process of landing an interview these days feels a bit like preparing for an investigation—endless paperwork, references, and the scramble to dig up old details about past employers. It almost feels as though you’re applying for an administrator role with the FBI, not a job in the corporate world. However, this tedious task holds a surprising benefit: it forces you to take a step back and reflect on your growth, accomplishments, and the value you bring to the table.

Recently, as I applied for a new position, I had to reach out to previous employers for reference letters. It's always a bit awkward asking for these, wondering if the person you're reaching out to will remember you well enough to speak highly of your contributions. To my surprise, the last reference letter I received was filled with praise for my exceptional technical skills, multitasking abilities, and team player attitude.

Being reminded of these strengths left me with a renewed sense of self-worth. Sometimes, we get so caught up in the hustle of daily tasks that we forget to recognize the impact we’re truly making. The reference letter highlighted that I had not only played my role according to expectations but had also done so in a way that added real value to the team and the organization. It was a humbling reminder that sometimes, we can’t see our own worth until others reflect it back to us.

This entire experience also reaffirmed a key belief I hold: when I choose to invest in a brand or company, I don't just show up—I focus. I believe in the brand’s values, its mission, and the upkeep of my own role within it. Being proud of the company you work for is just as important as being proud of the work you do for them. When you align your personal values with those of the organization, it elevates your performance and your sense of purpose. You begin to see your contribution as something more significant, more impactful, and ultimately more rewarding.

So, while applying for jobs can feel like an exhaustive process—one that includes paperwork, reference checks, and sometimes moments of self-doubt—it’s also a journey of self-discovery. Every reference letter, every recommendation, and every interview is an opportunity to pause and realize that you are capable of much more than you might think. And that’s a reminder worth holding onto in this ever-evolving career landscape.